Wednesday, March 25, 2015

A Different Kind of Christmas

I know it's March - but my first time being away from home for the bulk of the holiday season deserves some recognition I figure.

The Christmas season started here in Madagascar around the middle of November. I was happily shocked when I walked in to ShopRite (one of the local grocery stores) and there was a large Christmas Tree lit up and surrounded by toys right in the entry way of the store. Not only that, but there were many new things in the store that I have never seen here; things that we would normally get at home no problem. It was a big day! I of course called Matt hollering about the amazing discovery - he pretended to be as enthusiastic as I was, and agreed that we could buy a tree and put up decorations.

We also then had the wonderful idea to introduce our friends here to our traditions back at home. We had to do a little different, but they turned out to be fantastic. I don't think Matt and I have ever decorated our tree by ourselves. We have always involved friends or family. This year was just us and it felt a little strange. Luckily our friends Alex and Dave came over just as we were finishing and we decided to make angels for it. Matt and I did a great job but unfortunately it died a horrible death in which the glue couldn't hold up to the constant barrage of air conditioning. We put up lights in the all the windows - something Matt won't even do for me in Canada! - and had a great time bringing a little bit of Christmas here.

Taadaa! You'll notice our sad, mostly decapitated angel on the top
Alex, Dave and Miles putting their angel on the tree


Alex and Dave's much more sturdy angel. You can tell because
of all his muscles..obviously


Another amazing (to me) discovery is that Boney M., the creators of my most cherished Christmas album, are very popular here. So I know many of you complain when the radio stations start playing Christmas music right after Remembrance Day and play it through the New Year - quit complaining! At least it varies! I was in my glory, but someone like Matt, who only listens to Boney M. because I love them so much, was not impressed with them only playing Boney M. for two straight months.

2014 would have been our 10th (!!!) annual 'Lisa and Matt Christmas Party'. Can you believe that?! 10 years! I was very upset that we wouldn't be hosting that this year, and then realized that we could still do it, we'd just do it here! So we invited everyone over and I went to town baking all my typical Christmas baking. We had sugar cookies, peanut butter blossoms, shortbread, gingersnaps (thanks to Kent who brought me back Molasses), rice krispie squares (thanks again to Kent, who brought me back marshmallows), goofballs, and I even ventured into the land of making my own caramel corn. To top it off we had a hot chocolate and latte bar, and as per tradition everyone left with their own little package of baking. We didn't play games this year, instead we all curled up and watched Christmas movies. We started with the classic 'How the Grinch Stole Christmas' cartoon, then watched 'Elf' and 'Arthur Christmas'. We were going to then watch 'A Christmas Story' and 'National Lampoons Christmas Vacation', but as per usual there was a bit too much Baileys in the hot chocolate and no one had any more attention to pay to movies. It was a fantastic night!

The stockings I made for Matt and I. 
Merry Christmas from Matt
Look at those pretty lights! We had them on the front window as well. Hooray!
My scrapbooking stuff even made it here! CTMH treat bags
Hot Chocolate Bar
All the baking! 
I promise, Ryan was having a good time. 
Nom Nom Nom
Our youngest guest! 

Several of our friends here were not going to be able to make it home for Christmas, some for the first time in their lives. This made me very sad. So we decided to give them a full blown Canadian Christmas Dinner. I know many of you have seen our sad little turkey that wasn't......thank goodness I also bought some chickens. Again we invited everyone over, I believe we ended up with 18 people! Matt and I worked all day prepping and cooking and we put out quite the feast! Turkey, chicken, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, roasted carrots, stuffing, buns, gravy, and then apple and pumpkin pies for dessert. We even found Christmas crackers, and once we got everyone seated around a huge table, we showed everyone how those worked. Matt and I were the only ones that had ever done them - and the few Malagasy friends that joined us thought we were nuts! We even made it a requirement that everyone wear their paper crowns. So much fun!!





After the meal, I was surprised by our very generous friends who bought me a chair that I had wanted since I moved here. It is a lovely bamboo recliner - perfect for sitting in the yard and reading my b...I mean doing my homework. It was so kind and very unexpected.




Matt and then left two days later to start our journey home for the holidays. We had planned a two night layover in London, as it's Matt's favourite city and we'd never seen it at Christmas. I can definitely say it did not disappoint! It's quite a magical city. This visit we stayed just outside of Covent Garden, in the 7 dials in a lovely hotel. We walked Trafalgar Square, St. James park, saw the changing of the guard, went to the Hyde Park Winter Wonderland, and drank copious amounts of coffee. Well, I did anyway...At the Hyde Park Winter Wonderland there were huts that served hot drinks with alcohol. Hot chocolate and Baileys with whipped cream and chocolate sprinkles?? Yes Please! We also tasted chestnuts roasted on an open fire for the first time --- belch! Do not recommend. We also saw The Book of Mormon. That is seriously one of the funniest things I have seen in my entire life. We spent 2 hours laughing so hard that our cheeks and stomach hurt. If you have delicate sensibilities then don't go see it - mostly because the people you go with don't want to deal with you being all offended.....it's seriously amazing and actually has an incredible message.  We walked Trafalgar Square, St. James park, saw the changing of the guard, went to the Hyde Park Winter Wonderland, and drank copious amounts of coffee. Well, I did anyway. The weather was quite nice - though we were very chilly. It was above zero, but nothing like what we had been experiencing in the middle of summer in Madagascar. Canada was going to be fun....

Trafalgar Square

The London Eye

My tasty Baileys drink
 St. James Park might be my favourite place in London

This is what London looks like a week before Christmas
Regent Street

A lovely fair we found. So beautiful


Ready for a night on the town!
The Book of Mormon! Prince of Wales Theatre





















After London it was time to come home. We picked up our rental car at the airport and decided what better way to arrive home then to stop and surprise Matt's sister and her family. We literally drive past their place on the way home from the airport and it seemed almost silly not too. So we pulled up and knocked on the door unannounced at 7:00 p.m. on a Saturday and our nephew Jack, and niece Coralynn come to the door and lift up the blinds to see who it is. It took a minute and then Jack started hollering "AUNTIE LISA'S HERE!!!!". We had to remind them to actually let us in, and the first thing Jack said was "Why are you here??". It was exactly the reaction I had hoped for. We caught them right in the middle of the pre-Christmas purge and thoroughly enjoyed completely distracting the kids from whatever they were supposed to be doing. We got a tour of their newly cleaned rooms and the play room, and then Jack sat in the middle of the stairs asking why we had to leave and why we couldn't sleep over.  With much assurances that'd we see him soon we headed home.

I finally understand what it was like for Matt all those times coming home. The closer you get the harder it is to sit still. I have never been away for that long and I couldn't wait to see the dogs and sit on my couch and just be home. The dogs did not disappoint either, being so excited to see us that Toby just eventually flopped over on his back and wiggled, and Clutch couldn't stop running in circles, being with each of us just long enough to get a small pet on the head.

The next 2 weeks went by in a blur. We were able to see A Christmas Carol at the Citadel with Nikki and Nolan, after a lovely dinner at the Hardware Grill. They even surprised us and picked us up in a limo! So much family time, and as many friends as we could get to see in between all the family commitments that typically accompany Christmas.  We spent New Years with Niels, Amanda and Kevin in Canmore as per usual and had a fantastic time. The dogs weren't huge fans of the fire works but they survived and didn't even hate us in the morning!



Champagne and limos on the way to The Christmas Carol. 

Matching onesies that we found in London.
Aren't we fashionable!

Coralynn and I, Christmas Day

Doesn't Matt look happy to be back in winter?
Sleigh ride at Christmas Reflections at Fort Edmonton Park

My two favourite nieces and I. 

Lunch at the Grizzly Paw - our favourite eatery in Canmore



On our way to a day of shopping (ladies) and beer drinking (gentlemen)

Seriously - can they get any more beautiful? I love the mountains

 Then all of a sudden it was time to head back. It was such a strange feeling. I was sad to be leaving home - very, very sad.....but once we were on that first plane I was looking forward to getting back home, and back to routine. I loved all the time with family and friends, but there is so much guilt when you leave because you know that there are people you didn't get to see, and people you'd have loved to see more of. We put special emphasis on family time, allowing a lot of visits, a lot of time with the kids, and a lot of time with the dogs. This is what we wanted, and it was fantastic though exhausting. I'm hoping I'll be a bit more of a pro at only being home for short periods of time next Christmas - that is if we get to be home for Christmas next year.




Saturday, March 21, 2015

And you thought Canada Post was bad....

I realize it's been a very long time since a blog post by either of us. There has been a lot going on, we just haven't had time. I promise I am going to take time in the next week or so to do some serious updating, but for now, I'm going to talk about something new I experienced the past two weeks. 

It recently came to my attention that there is an actual post office here. Of course there are couriers like DHL, UPS and FedEx, but for some reason it never occurred to me that there would be a post office; certainly not one that would ship internationally. A friend had looked in to sending a package with the major couriers to Great Britain and it was going to be a ridiculous $180.00. We were happy when we found out that there was a post office that promised to be at the very least a bit cheaper. 

There are very many people in our lives having baby girls in the next couple weeks - or in the last month. Seriously - so many of you are having babies that I can't keep up! There are some ladies in the market that make amazing hand stitched dresses. Seriously hand stitched, they sit in their booths and you can watch them make them - many of the other booths order shipments from the capital city of dresses that are made in some sort of dress factory. I've long admired them, and decided that I would attempt to send some dresses for the new babies. 

I purchased the dresses and bought padded envelopes, wrapped the dresses in several plastic bags to avoid getting wet, and utilized a rather large amount of packing tape. We don't really have a return address so I had to make something up, knowing full well that if the packages didn't make it to their destination they most certainly weren't going to make it back to me. 

Then it was off to the post office. Thinking I would get all my errands out of the way in the morning, that was my first stop. First we went to the very large postal place that apparently is the regional courier for inland shipments. They told us they only shipped letters. Weird - they sell boxes for parcels. So then we went to the other building - a much more dilapidated building kind of hidden in alleys in the city. We walk in the door and there is a very small amount of space for customers, the entire place is sectioned off and has glass (plastic) from the counter up to the ceiling. The very nice lady gladly mailed my postcards for me - only $0.80 each - isn't that what it costs to send a letter within Canada now? Unfortunately, the packages couldn't be sent because they needed to be opened and inspected by a customs agent that wasn't there. I asked when they would be there so that I could come back and was told "Usually between 3-4 in the afternoon, but sometimes between 2 -3, and sometimes in the morning, it just depends on when and if his bus comes." That was helpful. 

It took two weeks of going every single day and either just missing them, or them having not been there that day. Finally, yesterday, I had success! I arrived at 3:10 and the customs agents were there, hallelujah! I had to fill out 3 forms for each package (luckily I was only sending three this time), and then the woman behind the counter had to fill out 2 additional forms per package. Then I was asked to cut each package open. After that was all done, I was given the forms and the packages back and was asked to sit and wait. I had my driver with me, thank goodness, or I wouldn't have a clue what was going on. We then sat and waited for 40 minutes. A man came to get us and took us through a tiny little door so that we were behind the plastic partition. A woman at a little desk had a notebook in which she was drawing her own columns. Then she had to write down all of the information on the envelopes and all the forms by hand, opening each package and inspecting every single dress to make sure I wasn't sneaking anything else out of the country. Once each package was approved, I was then directed to another desk to retake the package, and then I had to sign on the tap over the cut to prove that it was me that cut it open and not someone else in the shipping process. 

Finally I was given the go ahead to pay for the packages. To send three parcels, each weighing between 3 and 4 lbs, to Canada, cost me $30. They claim that it's going to be 20 days until they reach their destination. I find that highly unlikely. A friend send a package to Dubai and was told 8 days and it took 6 weeks. Honestly I'm just going to be happy if they make it! 

I've decided for the next batch of shipments I had planned - postcards and packages - I'm going to just get them all done at once so we only have to spend one entire afternoon at the post office :) What astounded me the most, which I know shouldn't have astounded me at all, is the amount of paper work that goes in to it and that it's all done by hand. I noticed that one of the stickers put on the packages was a bar code. I have no earthly idea what for since there is no way to do that. Presumably in Antanarivo they will have the capability to scan the item. 

Either way - it was an experience. So there are 5 post cards and 3 parcels on their way to Canada. If you get one, please let me know they've arrived, we'll keep a tally of how long each took!